In my last post I talked about one or two reasons you should never choose to be in a relationship. Now I want to give you a list of more reasons. There are many reasons for wanting a relationship. We are going to deal with the wrong reasons to want a relationship.
- The desire to be loved
- To feel complete
- All my other friends have someone
- Way out of a current situation
- Fear of being alone
I'm sure there are many more reasons, but these are the only ones that come to mind at this point. These are the top ten reasons many women want to be in a relationship. If you find yourself wanting a relationship because of any of these reasons mentioned you need to stop and reevaluate some things in your life. You should never want or desire a relationship because of any of the reasons mentioned. This will only lead to you being unhappy and may potentially lead to a toxic relationship.
I can't stress enough how important it is to be satisfied with the place God has you. Be satisfied where God has you. Having that right relationship is important for your health, well-being and you as an overall person. Relationships really do effect who you are as a person. So when you choose to be in a relationship with someone make sure it will enhance your life, not take away from it.
When considering a relationship….
You should be satisfied where God has you. Sometimes God has you in a holding place. He wants to be your only desire. He wants to take first place in your life. He wants your focus to be on him so he can complete some things in you.
- Make sure that the relationship you are considering will enhance your life. Remember we are making life choices and not right now choices. A life choice will enhance your life and add growth.
Talk to me:
- Have you ever been in a relationship for all the wrong reasons?
- How did that relationship affect your life?
"Activating and Building the Godly Woman in You"